Even after the events of “Our Worlds at War” and their terrible consequences, Lois still resented the fact Superman chose to rescue Wonder Woman, a vital member against the menace a vast number of Planets were facing, over her dad, who was…well, her dad. Never mind his decision was made in the midst of battle and he had a split second to decide. She eventually forgave him.
On the other hand, Diana, whose sister was murdered by Robot Superman, a doppelganger who appeared after the dead of the Man of Steel, never even thought on making Clark responsible for Donna’s demise or blame him for not rescuing her. She never even consider there was something to forgive.
Nor did Martha Kent for not being on time to save his father, the love of her life, even though he was killed to hurt the Kryptonian.
Different reactions from the women in Superman’s life towards him, in the face of unspeakable lost.